Growing up in Africa, my understanding of wealth was primarily shaped by observing the working adults around me. One of them was my father. He worked tirelessly to provide for our family, a standard narrative for many parents in the neighbourhood around that time.

My father was often on the road, away from his family, as his work demanded of him, leaving little room for personal pursuits. For a man with a sizable family to provide for, financial stability was very important. And even though he worked really hard, he couldn't control his time like he wanted to.

Witnessing my father's sacrifice highlighted the importance of a more holistic definition of wealth. Today, many individuals still find themselves caught in the same or similar predicament - emphasising jobs and constant career advancement, often leading to a trade-off between financial success and personal freedom. And as you would rightly guess, the conventional pursuit of wealth can sometimes mean sacrificing the essence of a lifetime.

Definition of Wealth: Beyond Financial Numbers

Ever wondered what people regret the most on their deathbed? There's a notable study by Bronnie Ware, a palliative care nurse, who found the top regrets in her book 'The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.' It boils down to not living true to oneself, working too hard, not expressing feelings, not staying in touch with friends, and not allowing oneself to be happier.

Regret 1: I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

True wealth, as I see it, is the delicate balance between financial stability and the freedom to live life on one's terms. It involves having the resources to meet basic needs while enjoying the luxury of time.

Regret 2: I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.

However, it can be a deeply personal and subjective notion, varying from person to person. And while conventional definitions of wealth may emphasise high salaries and expansive portfolios, a growing number of individuals are challenging these norms.

Regret 3: I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

For me, it's about cultivating a life where work complements personal passions rather than overshadowing them.

Regret 4: I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

I strongly believe that wealth is also about having the time and freedom to engage in activities that bring joy and fulfilment rather than being tethered to the pursuit of monetary gains.

Regret 5: I wish that I had let myself be happier.

What do you think?

What does wealth mean to you? A hefty bank account, a lavish lifestyle, or?

Definition of Wealth: Beyond Financial Numbers